Why Millennials Put Mortgage Before Marriage

By Anne DullaghanFool.com

Millennials continue to confound older generations with an emerging tendency to reverse the traditional order of steps in a committed relationship. Where the norm used to be, "First comes marriage, then comes themortgage," a2013Coldwell Banker Real Estate survey found that for one in four married couples, joint homeownership came before wedding bells.

Those in the housing markets have definitely noticed this trend of buying a house before marriage. "I find a much higher percentage of millennials are the product of divorced or second families," saidBruce Ailion, a real estate professional with RE/MAX Greater Atlanta. "The expectation of marriage as a forever proposition has changed and thus, they are not holding off on making major life decisions till marriage -- whether that is moving in together, having children, starting a business, orbuying a house."

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Buying a house before marriage: What's behind the growing trend?So what is it that makesgetting a mortgage loan together -- definitely a big commitment -- easier than getting married first?

Rising costs of weddings.One reason could be the rising price of weddings in the U.S. With theaverage wedding costringing in around $28,000, many couples are putting off that expense in favor of other financial goals, such as buying a home.

JeffKear, CEO of My Wedding Workbook Pro, sees finances as a key consideration in buying a house before marriage. Due to recently high unemployment rates,"young people simply don't have the disposable income to pay for a wedding,"Kear said. "Add to that the fact that their parents' nest eggs may have taken a big hit with the recession, and families have less money to shell out for a big wedding."

Financial security."Often in these couples, one or both feel capable of going forward alone with the home if something happened to the relationship either before or after marriage," Ailion said.

High cost of housing."Another factor:in many marketsrenting an apartmentcan be nearly twice as costly as owning," Ailion said."Many unmarried couples living together are doing so to reduce living expenses. One residence costs less than two."

Confidently cohabitating.Millennials are more likely to postpone marriage, choosing to live together instead. For instance, from 1990 to 2008, while millennialswere moving into adulthood, the share of households headed by a cohabiting couple nearly doubled (to 6.2 million), according to the Census Bureau.

Kear notes that fewer young Americans attach the same meaning to a wedding and marriage than previous generations"

From the mouth of a Millennial: Why getting a mortgage before marriage makes senseOnemillennial, 24-year-old Aubin Tierney, a recruitment,marketing associate and lab assistant for Mountain View Clinical Research, shares her experience:

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Things to consider when buying a house as an unmarried coupleOf course, whenever you sign a contract, you are legally bound to abide by itsterms. If a couple purchases a property and then decides to part, both people are responsible for the debt for the lifetime of the loan.So how does cosigning on a home loan work without being legally married?

Whatever the relationship, it's important to realize a mortgage is alegally binding contract.

"The historically low mortgage rates have made buying a home attractive to more people," saidEdward J. Achtner, Bank of Americasenior vice president, area executive. "However, just like those who are married, millennials who are cohabitating need to understand that they are both contractually bound to the loan agreement."

Achtner notes that it's important to determine certain things before you purchase. In case the relationship falls apart,can you carry the entire mortgage payment -- including property taxes and insurance? If not, consider renting until you are on steadier financial or relationship ground.

Once you do decide to take the home-buying plunge, there are three ways that an unmarried couple can sign on a home loan. According to David Bakke of MoneyCrashers, one person becomes the sole owner, both people sign as "joint tenants," or both parties sign as "tenants in common."

"If only one name is on the on theloan, the other party won't have much recourse in the event of separation, a future divorce, or a death,"Bakke said. "When signing as joint tenants, both parties typically share equal ownership. When signing as tenants in common, if one party passes away, his or her portion of the home goes to whoever is designated in their will. Any unmarried couple wishing to purchase a home together should definitely consult a real estate attorney prior to buying."

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