Dave Ramsey: The love of your life can't manage money. Should you call off the wedding?
Make sure things move a little more slowly in the relationship
Editor's note: Money expert Dave Ramsey is CEO of Ramsey Solutions. He has authored seven best-selling books, including "The Total Money Makeover." His radio show "The Dave Ramsey Show" is heard by more than 16 million listeners each week on 600 radio stations and multiple digital platforms. Each week he answers a question about personal finance in his "Dave Says" column.
My boyfriend lives in a different state, and I’m planning to move there when we get married.
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I know I love him, but sometimes he is not what I consider to be responsible with money.
There have been times in the past when he has taken out small loans or paid bills late in order to buy something he wanted.
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How can I talk to him about this?
If it were me, I think I’d make sure things move a little more slowly in the relationship until he gets his spending under control.
Sometimes when things like this happen it’s just a situation where a person needs to learn the benefits of budgeting and handling money in a mature, responsible way.
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You can’t do something if you haven’t been taught how to do it, and hopefully, this is the case with your boyfriend.
You mentioned marriage, so that tells me you’re both taking this relationship seriously—that you’re in the process of making sure you want to spend the rest of your lives with each other.
Bring it up gently, and tell him why you’re concerned. Share your hopes and dreams for the future with him.
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You might even offer to help him make out a monthly budget. That way, once he understands the process and value of spending money on paper before the month begins, it will be easier for him to stick to it.
Good luck, Heather!
Dave Ramsey is a seven-time #1 national best-selling author, personal finance expert, and host of The Dave Ramsey Show, heard by more than 16 million listeners each week. He has appeared on Good Morning America, CBS This Morning, Today Show, Fox News, CNN, Fox Business, and many more. Since 1992, Dave has helped people regain control of their money, build wealth and enhance their lives. He also serves as CEO for Ramsey Solutions.
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