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What to Do When You’ve Made Someone Angry
Published May 03, 2013
We’re so focused on our own challenges that it’s often hard to acknowledge the challenges of others.
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How to Use Temptation to Strengthen Your Willpower
Published March 29, 2013
Maybe getting the object of our desire isn’t what we really desire. Maybe it’s the desire itself which we desire. In other words, maybe it’s more pleasurable to want things than to have them.
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How Not to Lose a Sale
Published March 08, 2013
Attunement is being in synch with who's and what's around you. When you're in attunement, you're curious. You ask questions, you listen to the answers, and you empathize.
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Nine Practices to Help You Say No
Published March 01, 2013
Identify what’s important to you and acknowledge what’s not. If you don’t know where you want to spend your time, you won’t know where you don’t want to spend your time.
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Stop Focusing on Your Performance
Published January 31, 2013
Living life as a performance is not only a recipe for stress and unhappiness; it also leads to mediocre performance.
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Why You Need to Fail
Published January 25, 2013
Every time I ask a room of executives to list the top five moments their career took a leap forward — not just a step, but a leap — failure is always on the list.
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How to Attend a Conference as Yourself
Published January 18, 2013
People will trust you if you trust yourself. And to trust yourself you have to step out from behind the curtain.
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Your Problem Isn't Motivation
Published January 11, 2013
The solution to a motivation problem is the exact opposite of the solution to a follow through problem. The mind is essential to motivation. But with follow through, it’s the mind that gets in the way.
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Consider Not Setting Goals in 2013
Published December 21, 2012
It's not that goals, by their nature, are bad. It's just that they come with a number of side effects that suggest you may be better off without them.
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An 18-Minute Plan for Managing Your Day
Published December 14, 2012
Managing our time needs to become a ritual, too. Not simply a list or a vague sense of our priorities. That's not consistent or deliberate. It needs to be an ongoing process we follow no matter what to keep us focused on our priorities throughout the day.

